Mountains aren’t trustable isn’t that so?! Letting the water flow rather than holding it… Samely Egg shells too not trustworthy instead of protecting the yolk inside, breaking itself and letting the chicken out…
Oops! sounds crazy right? Sometimes falling is beauty. Breaking will be majestic dear. Not every fall is meant for bad end and not every breaks will take life apart. Yes. Not every breaking is leading us to further worse. Here you go!
After reading a blog post, I was thinking about childhood days. Generally children and their experiences. Especially about interpersonal relationships. We might’ve seen people who unknowingly hurted us. We might’ve faced people using abusive words towards us. We might’ve handled situations where people walk away like nothing happened even after knowing that they hurted us badly. Yes. We must’ve faced. None can deny this except some people. I won’t say they’re blessed.
Cause when you cry for being hurted you’ll know the pain of getting hurts. You’ll be bleeding inside. You can fake a smile outside. But you can’t deceive your inner child. Yes. Its hurted. Its hurted badly. And some souls are learning out of getting hurts. And some aren’t. Nothing to blame the latter cause they’re hurted.
But I’m speaking to you dear, be proud of your scars. People who never get hurted never lived their life. If they’ve tried anything,they must’ve gone through a situation like this.
As the same when you speak thousand words you can’t assure all thousand words is desirable or acceptable to the person in the other corner. We all make mistakes. We’re adding guilts and hurts.
However we LIVED in both hurts and guilts. Yes! we lived. We made it. We’re leveled up dear! Try not to make excuses by saying brought up or surrounding. REACTIONS ARE LEARNED NOT ACTIONS THO! THINK AGAIN. REACTIONS ARE LEARNT BUT ACTIONS NEVER! In every encounter either in easy or in toughest one, still you’ll have options for how you gonna ACT!
If it feels hurted you’re a teacher to the soul asking for forgiveness. First, Let them know that you’re hurted. And if they seek for forgiveness be generous enough to grant them with forgiveness. This day you may be a teacher but another day you can become a learner too. Its okay to feel this. And if it feels guilty, ask for forgiveness. Its okay you’re learning. Be proud of you in this learning process. You’ll become better. You never knew this before. No one taught you this. Everyone is learning only through experience. Everyone of us is tossing in between many circumstances among many people. Yes. To become better is not only your cry. You’re one among billions who’re striving for best version. No one gonna love your old version when you become something better than before. Even you. So its okay. Never let your scars go vain. Make use of it. Scars can teach you dear. Listening to someone’s experience can teach you but it can’t make yourself a teacher.
Finally, life is simple to invest happiness. But life is majestic too. It won’t tell you ‘how’. You have to find out. It’ll make you wonder why, but you know what?! you’re provided with answers within you. Life is not a battle dear. Life is a war. Once you lost your life in this process of learning your story will end. But you can create a mark! Everything will be buried with you, your words, your thoughts, your novel ideas, just everything only IF YOUR LIFE NEVER IMPACTED ANYONE!
I don’t know what you think about death but for me that’s much more important than birth. You may think it’s not a big deal. It’s Just An End. Nope. Never. I can link it with every aspect of my life. Freedom from pain and suffering. The only way to find out the truly loving souls. Only moment which turns everything upside down. The moment of taking your last breathe. Which can’t be turned back, Which can’t be predicted, Which can’t be resisted, Which can’t be postponed, Which can’t be dealt, Which can’t be welcomed either, Which won’t give us grace time. But exists and totally true!
Even after knowing this taking this life for granted is the greatest mistake anyone can do! So you decide what is hurt and what is guilt to your soul. Take lead in your life. Never let this life play with you. Life is there for every single creature being born in this world. Its (life is) stable. We’re pedestrians. If you wanna be a unique challenge this life. Let’s live. Life will salute you soon!
Will see you!
Blog post mentioned earlier was written by Published authoress Bhavini Vijayanadhan.